Sunday, May 11, 2008

There's Trouble in Capital City, and that starts with T

and that stands for... Timeout

Friends.

Reading this little online diary, you might get the impression that Daniel and Rachel can do no wrong. This is just not the case. In the last couple of weeks, we've had a dramatic increase in Daniel not listening, or testing his limits by deliberately not doing what we've asked him to. There's also been a marked increase in food aversion - the kid who'd eat anything suddenly says I don't LIKE it. And the occasional hitting of his sister. And so there are timeouts - three minutes on a chair by himself to think about what he did. Daniel does not like this.

As one of Eric's friends said when told about this - "thank goodness, he's a normal kid" -> and really, this is probably true. We never saw anything that resembled a "terrible two", and even the current state is only notable because it's so unlike him. As Garrison Keillor says "all of the children are above average"

Rachel has been in decent spirits, considering that she's teething again. The poor girl doesn't do teeth one at a time - she batches them up and is popping another 3 or 4 a the same time. So there were some sleepless nights.

Speaking of which, Rachel is now finally off the bottle alltogether. She gets a sippy cup of milk and some cheese at nighttime, but no more bottles. This is a good thing. She's also gotten into books. Until recently she wasn't too excited about them, but now she'll make the sign for book and demand to have 3 or 4 stories read to her at night.


Daniel's concept of time has really advanced pretty significantly in the last couple of weeks. For a long time, anything that happened in the past was "yesterday", but now he knows about "last week", "2 months ago" and "when I was little" among others. He also knows about the days of the week "On Friday, I will go to Playschool" and about events that are scheduled to happen. He doesn't always get the details right, but he's showing a much greater understanding of time. "Yesterday, you said that I could have big waffles today" - yeah, I guess I did say that. Note to self -> kids hear everything, remember everything, and can remind you of everything.

We took the bike trailer for a little ride the other day, and went over to the beach on the other side of the state park that's right next to our house. This was a popular excursion - the ride was exciting, the beach was a big hit. Rachel was just giddy wading in the water, while Daniel thought that maybe it was a little too cold.

Daniel's first year of playschool is coming to an end this week, with end-of-year parties and an evening celebration on Friday. The experience has been good for him, and he'll be going back in the fall. This summer there will be lots of other activities. Some travel, some visitors, some undetermined activity. It'll be fun.

That's about all for now.

Love, D.R.A.E

2 comments:

jack01 said...

Hello everyone!

Sorry to hear about you "time outs" Daniel these things happen to everyone. Did you get a new haircut?

And Rachel you look very pretty with you nice big smile.

We are looking forward very much to seeing you next week. love farmor and grandpa

grandma Babe said...

Hi All!

Daniel, you do sound as if you are a normal little boy. We all develop what we like and don't like, sometimes, others don't always like the change, but you are blessed because I know both Papa and Mama understand this concept.
Rachel, kudos with the teeth. I have always prefered to do all and just get it over with, so we can get to the next thing.

Enjoy your summer, people, and places. I am off to Ky. again next week, so not sure when I will be able to chat again.
Love to All, Grandma Babe